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Every woman can squirt
Everyone I had spoken to about it and shared tricks and tips with was able to ejaculate in the first couple of attempts. There are no exceptions so far.

Is it even possible?
I never thought squirting would ever apply to me, I knew what the word meant and that porn movies featured it, but that was about it. I’d never heard any of my friends discuss, wonder, or get excited about it. Even during my BDSM exploration, this phenomenon felt too vague and remote. In my mind, it only happened in the ‘far away world of porn stars,’ and ‘normal’ women having sex with ‘normal’ men didn’t do it – albeit sometimes kinky.
My deeply rooted obsession for reading everything on topics I love led me to a book I could not ignore – “Female ejaculation and the G-spot” by Deborah Sundahl. This book gave me clear step-by-step instructions on finding the G-spot, stimulating it, and ejaculating. Even while reading it, I was still thinking it’s something I can’t achieve, wouldn’t enjoy doing, or even consider trying. Why would I ever try squirting? I had no idea back then that it was an integral part of the way to a deeper sexual experience.
The book culminated with 12 easy steps to ejaculation, promising an easy and pleasurable experience after completing them. There was really no reason not to give it a go. I also had quite a bit of experience with a Jade Egg, so I felt enough strength, sensitivity, and aliveness to push myself a bit more. And it worked! From the very first attempt, it just worked! I discovered something that I never thought my body could do. This discovery alone was already worth it.
Let’s go deeper.
But there was a lot more to this experience, a deeper emotional layer. To be able to ejaculate, I had to surrender, fully let go, stop contracting my sensations inside, and push them outside instead. I had to allow a high level of vulnerability, with so little ground for my mind to get on board. I never looked back; there was no reason not to squirt anymore; it was too good, liberating, beautiful, powerful, and vulnerable, a step towards the ultimate surrender.
I started talking about it and talked about it a lot with everyone who would listen. I even argued with a friend who was convinced that most people would rather avoid squirting than enjoy it, so we did some research. We read the questions people post on forums about squirting. We didn’t find any posts from anyone asking for help on how to stop squirting. Instead, we found hundreds of people asking and wondering if it’s something they or their partners could do. I questioned how, why, and what it was all about. And why is it that this topic becomes so fascinating, captivating, and exciting once discovered?
After reading everything there was available to read, studying everything available to study, and, well... ejaculating everything there was to ejaculate, I found ancient Chinese and Indian paintings glorifying ejaculation as the elixir of life. Tribes in Africa where mothers would teach their daughters how to squirt from a very young age, and Australian and UK scientists who said that squirting did not exist and everything portrayed in porn as squirting was actually peeing, making squirting porn illegal in those countries. I also found answers to some of the most pressing questions and doubts about squirting.
From my first-hand experience, squirting is not only real, but it’s accessible to women with a little bit of knowledge on the topic. Everyone I had spoken to about it and shared tricks and tips with was able to ejaculate in the first couple of attempts. There are no exceptions so far.
Myths vs facts
What many women experience as an urge to pee during sexual encounters is very likely to be an urge to ejaculate. With a bit of practice, you can distinguish them apart, but a lot of women consciously withhold ejaculation, assuming it’s an urge to pee. Getting over this psychological reflex of holding it in and allowing it to flow is the only thing standing in the way of squirting for the majority of women.
Every single man I have ever talked to about it was like, ‘hell yes!’ and I felt like there were deeper reasons for this reaction than the simple admiration of fountains. The answer to this fascination likely lies in the biological value of squirting. Because there should be a biological value as there is one for everything our bodies do.
Clitoris stimulation generates lubrication, preparing you for intercourse - a very clear function and value. G-spot stimulation generates quite a bit of water-like fluid that flows or even shouts out. The most plausible explanation I have come across is that it cleans out the remains of previous sperm and prepares your vagina for the new one, so nothing stands in the way of new visitors getting to their main objective - fertilizing the egg. As we are wired to maximize our chances to procreate, we are intricately drawn and magnetized by squirting.
Squirting is largely triggered by direct G-spot stimulation as it stimulates the Skene's glands, which produce a watery-like fluid and is then expelled through the urethra. The fluid is transparent and has a distinct odor.
Sometimes, it can have an odor if there is any urine left in the urethra when the fluid passes through. However, there is a clear difference in the color, odor, and composition between ejaculation fluid and urine. Studies of the fluid show that it contains PSA (prostate-specific antigen), which led some scientists to call the G-sport the female prostate.
Sometimes, it can have an odor if there is any urine left in the urethra when the fluid passes through. However, there is a clear difference in the color, odor, and composition between ejaculation fluid and urine. Studies of the fluid show that it contains PSA (prostate-specific antigen), which led some scientists to call the G-sport the female prostate.
Taking control
Lastly, women can squirt without an orgasm, orgasm without squirting, and do both at the same time. In general, women can do anything they want :) Squirting is an integral step towards having vaginal G-spot orgasms psychologically and physiologically, but getting there can require a bit more attention to your G-spot and bringing back vitality and sensitivity to this area.
FAQ’s
Should I try out squirting?
Yes!
Will I enjoy it?
Very likely.
Can I actually do it?
Yes, you can! Strong PC muscles are definitely a big help, so doing some Jade Egg exercises will maximize your chances for easy success.
How can I get there?
Check out “Female ejaculation and the G-spot” by Deborah Sundahl, and check out our courses. Start with Earth to strengthen your PC muscles and build up to Water, where we will guide you all the way to squirting.
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